The Ultimate Guide to Keeping your Child with Autism Safe [Infographic]

ByBarbara Nevers Updated October 6, 2020

As a parent, a top priority is always to keep your children safe. It is important to teach about the many dangers and risks in the world. This is the same for families with an individual with ASD, however, because of the nature of the disability, teaching about hazardous situations can be more challenging.

A recent study conducted by the NAA Mortality & Risk in ASD Wandering/Elopement found almost one-third of the reported missing persons related to elopement from the years 2011 through to 2016 in the USA.

These, unfortunately, concluded in requiring serious medical attention or death.Another study by the American Journal of Public Health discovered that mortality in individuals with ASD is 35.8 years younger than the general population.

It is safe to say, that safety and precaution are more specific due to Autism or other neurological disabilities. In these cases, there are various, very specific precautions that must be taken, to ensure the safety of Autism individuals throughout their life. These measures will need to be taken at home, schools, in the public and sexual safety must be a concern as well.

Throughout this complete guide to keep your child with Autism safe, we will go over every safety measure that will need to be taken to help you create your safety plan accordingly.

Yes, there may be times in which this might get a little scary, however, parents should not live in fear. There are many tips, plans, and actions you can keep in mind to ensure your child’s safety.

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An Overall Look Into the Symptoms of Autism Disorder

An Overall Look Into the Symptoms of Autism Disorder

Autism is a complex neurobehavioral condition, which impairs social interaction, language development, and communication skills. Due to the range in symptoms, this disability is now called “Autism Spectrum Disorder”, within the spectrum, there are different ranges of levels of impairment. The most common (but not limited to) symptom in children on the spectrum is their inability/difficulty to communicate and understand what other people think, feel, or say. Children with ASD will find it difficult to express themselves through words, gestures, body language and touch. Also, they might be pained by sensory stimulation, such as sounds, touches, smells or sights that might seem normal for neurotypicals.

Because ASD is a spectrum, not all of the individuals with this disorder will experience the same symptoms in the same form or range. People diagnosed with ASD may share some symptoms, but not all will react the same or experience the same levels of impairment. The difficulty of recognizing danger or hazardous situations is ascribed to this difficulty. Neurologically, people on the spectrum process information in a different manner, this naturally makes them more vulnerable compared to neurotypical individuals.

1. Some of these symptoms include:

On the positive side, with proper treatment, depending on the spectrum of autism of the child, there can be an improvement in many of their skills, including being able to get a job, go to school safely and use public transportation. However, as mentioned before, not all ASD people are the same. Some may even be nonverbal for most of their life.

Early intervention may improve learning, communication, and social skills as well as resolve any underlying brain development impairments. Therapy is a great way to help children affected by autism benefit from these interventions such as speech and occupational therapy.

2. Behaviors in Children or Adults with ASD:

3. Autism in Data and Numbers.

According to the CDC, the Autism Spectrum Disorder may appear in people of all racial, ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. 1 in 88 children have autism and boys are nearly five times more likely than girls to have this disability. And according to Autism Speaks, the prevalence of autism “the fastest-growing serious developmental disability in the United States.”

Statistics & Associated challenges in safety for children with autism are:

By taking a look at some of these statistics, it is safe to state that many of the individuals (especially children) on the spectrum will have trouble recognizing danger or attributing fear or act with precaution towards certain situations. This includes street danger, wandering, bullying, sexual harassment, and even dangerous scenarios in the home.

Create a Safety Plan for your Child On the Spectrum

Create a Safety Plan for your Child On the SpectrumCreating a safety plan will oftentimes, if not all, involve your community, neighbors and loved ones. According to Autism Speaks, creating an autism safety project in your household can help be aware of the main dangers for you and your close friends, family and the overall community.

1. Tips on Creating a Safety Plan for your Child with Autism

5 Safety Key Points for Children with Autism

Depending on your child’s day-to-day life and considering any activities that include this. We will cover the 5 main areas in which your child will need to keep safe as well as tips to create the best safety plan possible. Remember, this is all about prevention.

Points 1: Safety in Schools for Children with Autism

Safety in Schools

Because of the nature of this disability, a good safety plan needs to be in place, especially to provide to school faculty once your child becomes of age to attend school.

Here is some data by Masters in Special Education that you’ll be interested to know:

It is important to create a behavioral analysis of your child before letting them off into the world. This consists of analyzing how your child reacts to sensory stimuli. For example, if they tend to wander off and not listen, or experience a melt-down. This will be useful to know when speaking to school representatives on behalf of your child’s ASD.

1. Tips on Safety for Children with ASD at School:

2. The School Bus and Autism

If your child is a little older and you have decided they take the school bus, there have been some advances in terms of preparation for school bus drivers. There exists an Autism Treatment Network which created a model for autism-sensitivity and skills building program for school bus drivers. Ask if this is available at your school and be an advocate for these types of movements, or get in contact with them and let them know you’re interested in taking up this project at your school.

Either way, make sure you speak to the bus driver and let them know about your concerns, as well as communicate this to your school staff to help you keep an eye out for any riskful situations with transitioning from one area to another.

Points 2: Safety Procedures at Home

Safety Procedures at HomeBelieve it or not, the home has the potential to be a very dangerous place for any young child if not appropriately prepared. However, this is even more dangerous when referring to a child on the spectrum. While a young neurotypical child learns how to cope and recognize danger due to mild injury or accidents, children with ASD, will most probably not recognize danger nor take the precautions necessary to avoid it. The following safety measures will need to be in place for a much prolonged period of time, differing from neurotypical children safety plans.

1. Checklist for Safety in the Home

This checklist will help you arrange your home appropriately to keep your child with autism as safe as possible.

1.1. Arrange the furniture accordingly.

You will need to appropriately arrange furniture in relation to the activities your child will be undertaking. This refers to any seated activities, walking around, clear areas, etc. For example, if they run out of a certain room via the same path, make sure to arrange doors, windows, and furniture so they are unable to get hurt when wandering. It is best, that at a young age, you restrict the need for constant movement and transitioning from one place to the other. If there are any furniture or shelves they can use to climb make sure you check these out as well.

If your child tends to “sweep” objects from their stored spaces, such as shelves, drawers or storage boxes, make sure the surfaces in your home are clear of objects that can potentially harm them.

Use barriers or safety gates to prevent accidents such as falling down the stairs. You should also restrict access into hazardous areas, such as your garage, basement, tool room, laundry room, etc.

1.2. Apply Locks & Alarms where Needed.

In autistic individuals, it is very common for them to wander/elope, which means leaving the home or safe space without supervision. It is of great importance to apply safety locks and alarms on any openings in the house (doors, windows, etc) accessible to them, in order to stop the child from wandering off. Alarms will report if the child ever attempts to leave.

There can be a big concern around children leaving their bedrooms during the night. This is why it is very important to take the necessary measures. It is also advisable you contact your town’s local police to make them aware of the propensity to elope your child may have. It will be a good idea to keep the Take Me Home program or other similar, on hand in case this were to happen.

You will also need to contact your neighbors and close community in look for support and awareness of risks. Consult the professionals that install alarms so that they can advise of legal or certain safety procedures of the measures you are interested in applying.

Make use of safety locks around the home to restrict access to objects that may result to be unsafe. In many cases, these locks are applied in bathrooms and kitchen storage spaces such as cabinets, drawers, etc.

1.3. Windows Access

Some children tend to escape their bedrooms by climbing out the windows. It is of great importance that you apply locks on any windows they might have access to. Go to your local hardware store to ask for specific child safety locks. Also, there are children on the spectrum who may tend to bash on windows, if this is occurring, make sure to replace panes with Plexiglass to prevent injuries.

1.4. Electrical Outlets

Just like with any small child, you will need to restrict access to, remove, or cover any accessible outlets and appliances. For this, you can apply plastic covers for any doors, faucets, oven, burners and other dangerous artifacts. You can also lock access to the laundry room or the washer and dryer.

Make sure that any wiring is stored away so that your child has no access to them. Autism individuals are often times curious in how things work, which can lead to unawareness of hazardous objects.

1.5. Lock Dangerous Items

Anything that can be hazardous must be locked away, especially anything that can be swallowed, for instance, cleaning chemicals, pesticides, and medication. This includes smaller items as well. Individuals with autism can confuse items with others, for example, a container with green detergent for a bottle of fruit juice, as well as pills.

Other items you need to lock away:

1.6. Label Items at Home

Labeling can be a game changer. In a well-labeled home, a child with ASD may better understand the functions of a certain item. This can be done with the use of symbolism, words, or photos. You can tag anything from rooms, items, closets, lose objects, etc. Anything that the child will interact with on a day-to-day basis. This will help them recognize what each item or space is for.

1.7. Everyday Items Organization

It is a good idea to make sure that functional items are stored in transparent storage bins so that the child visualizes and recognizes objects. Autistic individuals behave better in an organized, ordered and structured environment. This will reduce frustration levels and will help with behavior.

1.8. Watch out for Bath Items & Toys

Small objects can be hazardous for your autistic child. Make sure these are kept somewhere away from the tub and stored away. Bath items and products should also be placed in a separate bin. Replace any regular bottles to pump dispensers for safety from ingestion.

1.9. Fire Safety

Matches and lighters should never be in reach of children and must be stored away in a safe space at all times. Make sure you apply covers over oven knobs and stoves. Supervise your children closely whenever close to any of these objects or appliances.

Some of the fire departments in communities will provide stickers for children’s bedroom windows, these have the function to aware firefighters to locate a child’s bedroom. It might be difficult to teach a child on the spectrum about the dangers of fire, however, it is a possibility to express how to behave around fire and fire safety rules.

Develop flash cards or social stories (pictures, photos, words) about anything that has to do with fire: Drills, alarms, detectros, etc, as well as the contact with fire. Read this to your child on an everyday basis.

Make sure you use visuals, as in photos, which can explain about how to act in case of a fire. For example, an alarming “don’t touch the oven burners” would be a picture of the kitchen and burners and include a big, red signal that reads “STOP”.

1.10. Safety with Visitors and Unknown People

As with any child, teaching about safety rules and awareness to opening doors to unknown visitors, especially in the case they are left alone at home. This is especially important for a child with autism who may have speech impediments and lack social communication, or speech delay. Create social stories with pictures to explain the rules.

1.11. Hot Water Safety

In some cases, children with ASD may have certain sensory challenges, and this can mean they are insensitive to pain, did does not mean they do not get hurt though. They are at a higher risk of getting burned by hot water, for example. If you are are able to, turn down the temperature on your water heater. When getting older, teach them about the combination of both cold and hot water, this can be done with stickers, signs, and photos too. This goes for the shower as well as other faucets in the home.

1.12. Swimming Pools

Drowning is still a common accident amongst fatalities in individuals with ASD. It is important to fence it and make sure your gates are self-closing and lock up above the child’s head/reach. When in use, make sure any toys and other items that can spark curiosity are out of reach and stored away.

Ask your neighbors with swimming pools to follow safety tips and make them aware of your child’s risks if there were to be potential wandering. A California research team found that drowning is the first cause of death rate in individuals with ASD. Make sure you give water safety lessons and swimming lessons to children with autism.

Points 3: Safety in Public

Safety in Public

Safety in public will have to do with transportation, law enforcement, potential wandering/eloping, and many other points.

Some statistics from the National Autism Association:

In a study by the IACC, it was found that 23 total fatal drownings occurred between 2000-2017. Wandering accounted for 73.9% of the incidents. Nearly half of the parents on this survey about elopement occurrence of around 1218 participants reported having attempted to elope with 26% to be missing long enough to be of worry or concern.

1. Contact your community’s Law Enforcement Officers.

It is very important to notify your local law enforcement about your child’s condition and potential wandering/elopement. Not only because they need to be aware of how to respond and/or find if they ever go missing, but to also know how to treat an individual that has wandered due to ASD.

During a Parent Survey, 50% to 60% of parents were at least somewhat concerned about their autistic child interacting with law enforcement. 30% to 40% stated that their child had or probably had interacted with the police at some point. Most stated the interaction went well (47.6%) and around 20-21% mentioned it went badly.

2. The Importance of Identification Options

Your child should count on identification in the event of wandering off, getting lost, or is incapable of expressing their identity effectively. Leaving home to be outside, might be a common activity amongst children with ASD as they enjoy being outdoors and in constant motion, this is a potential situation for them to leave home without supervision. Once outside of the home and/or safe spaces, they are vulnerable to the dangers of the streets, especially if unable to communicate how to go back home.

If your child tolerates a and identification accessory, make sure to purchase one at any drug store. However, many children on the spectrum will not be comfortable with wearing necklaces or bracelets due to their sensory sensibility. In this case, apply some labels onto each garment. Children can also be taught to provide identification from their personal belongings when not able to communicate information to someone else. Make sure these labels provide not only the name of the child but also your contact information. You can also make use of stickers to place on objects your child owns.

3. Talk about Boundaries

Make sure you use the social stories tools to create a sense of boundaries and constantly express to your child the importance of limits. Take a walk around the area, showing your child how far they are allowed to go. Even if they are to be supervised at all times.

4. Traffic Safety Rules.

It may be awhile until your child can feel safe enough to be able to walk around public spaces. However, teaching about traffic safety rules is important from the start. Cross a street, narrate the rules and have your child recite them as they cross the street. This will help them remember each time.

5. Public Safety Rules to Avoid Anxiety when Visiting New Places

Points 4: Safety Tips to Prevent Wandering/Elopement

Chapter 6 InspirationWandering mostly occurs and increases with the severity of ASD, the children who have wandered left their own homes or ones they were visiting. Usually, this is because they like being outside, running and exploring, but other reasons include escaping a stressful situation, or uncomfortable stimuli.

You will need to make sure you watch your child’s behavioral patterns to determine two things:

After this, it is best to develop and implement strategies to help your child deal with triggers and cope with this rather than escaping or wandering away. Make sure you include these triggers to your child’s IEP in the case this were to happen in a school environment.

Make use of social stories and review possible dangers and triggers with your child.

Some of the tips the Autism Wandering Awareness Alerts Response & Education provide are:

An estimated 1 out of 59 individuals with ASD and 49% of children have the tendency to wander from safe spaces. Individuals on the spectrum are attracted to water but have little to no sense of the danger it represents.

By creating these boundaries and following these tips, you will be able to prevent your child from wandering. In the case that this ever happens, you and everyone around you will know how to proceed.

Points 5: Sexual Safety for your Child with Autism

Sexual Safety

Sexual assault is real amongst individuals with neurological and intellectual disabilities. This is why it is important to be aware and teach your child on the spectrum, about the different signs of sexual abuse from the beginning. Sexual safety and learning must be a top priority for you as a parent or caregiver.

Sure, this can be a difficult topic to talk about, and some parents may think this isn’t a priority subject, with the assumption that this is unlikely to be a part of their lives. Sexuality education is, in fact, a very important topic. They need to be aware of the differences between appropriate and inappropriate behaviors when out and about.

It may not be such a good idea to presume this subject is overwhelming and should not be discussed. As mentioned before, it is important to have the conversation as early as possible.

The NPR ran a study and found that the prevalence of sexual harassment and assault among people with disorders:

1. Teach About Sexual Safety Key Points & Skills

Teach your child with ASD to focus on basic safety skills:

The best time to discuss sexual abuse is not later, it is now.

2. Prevent Sexual Abuse:

Check some of the National Child Traumatic Stress Network tips to find helpful information about protecting children from sexual abuse.

3. Signs Of Sexual Abuse In Autistic Children

Parents, caregivers, and friends need to stay aware and protect their loved ones, especially when there are signs that indicate victimization of potential abuse. Be aware that each person is unique and will show different signs in differing ways. However, it is best to pay attention to recognize these as soon as possible, in order to assist the victim with getting help and stopping the abuse.

These are the outlines of common behaviors in children who have experienced abuse by the American Psychological Association

When a child reports or shows signs of sexual abuse, take this very seriously.

For children with autism, the signs can manifest differently, make sure you find out. For more information read more.

4. Getting Help For Sexual Abuse:

Discovering someone you love has been a victim of sexual abuse can be disastrous. Once you are aware, find help and report the abuse.

If you suspect a child has been sexually abused, please contact:

More information about sexual abuse on Autism Speaks

You are the Best Advocate of your Child’s Safety

This complete guide will help you teach, recognize and stay aware of dangers and hazardous, risky situations you may not have been aware of until this point. Remember, whether your child on the spectrum is at home, school, in public, or any other space, make sure they are equipped with the materials they need to overcome any situation.

Make sure they are knowledgable and skilled as necessary to stay as safe as possible. You are their best resource to keep them safe and protected.


About the Author

Barbara Nevers

Barbara is a full-time mom of 3 children and a part-time blogger since 2018. She likes to write on various topics about motherhood. She drinks a lot of coffee, loves French pastries, reads a lot, also enjoys crafts and Montessori activities.

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