When Is the Best Time to Have a Baby Shower?

ByBarbara Nevers Updated December 20, 2020

A baby shower is one of the most traditional ways in which your friends and family come together to express their joy at your pregnancy. It’s the time when your loved ones share a few moments with you and shower you with gifts, love, and good wishes before your baby birth.

During pregnancy, the parents, future grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, friends, and other loved ones get so excited and eager to welcome the newest member of the family. A baby shower party is all about celebrating the joy of a new life and growing family.

However, figuring out when to have a baby shower can be frustrating. Baby showers don’t have to be awkward, and that’s why we’ve created this guide for planning a baby shower.

Read on to discover some baby shower planning ideas.

When To Throw A Baby Shower

No rule dictates when specific, you should have a baby shower. Baby shower party can be held any time during pregnancy, though they are commonly held in the third trimester around 32 weeks because there is less chance of miscarriage and you might have already know the sex of the baby.

When To Throw A Baby Shower

That way, guests might have already know the baby gender when choosing gifts accordingly.  However, if you decide to have your shower party after the baby is born, that’s fine, too.

Places To Have A Baby Shower

The number of people you’re planning to invite will determine the venue for your baby shower. It could be the new parent’s house or even the home of one of the planners.

However, planners should note that if the party took place at the new parent’s house, someone should stay behind to help with the cleanup.

There are also other places to have a baby shower, but the most important thing is to keep dad and mom’s preferences in mind and select a place that will accommodate the type of activities that you’re planning for the big day.

Read more about where to have a baby shower.

How To Pick A Baby Shower Date And Time

How To Pick A Baby Shower Date And Time

The host of the baby shower needs to consider different things before choosing a date. These include seasonal issues, the best time of the day, and the week.

1.Seasonal factors

Seasons can influence when you host a baby shower. For example, the holiday season can make it challenging to find time with everyone out of town. Summer and spring are perfect seasons to have an outdoor baby shower.

2.Best time of the week

Weekends are often ideal for hosting a baby shower because fewer people have work scheduled and can attend, so most mothers will likely prefer this option. You can also choose to host the baby shower on a weekday in cases of many friends having busy weekends. If so, make it clear to guests in advance that you did this for them to plan ahead of the party.

3.Best time of the day

Although tradition has given way to different options, the best time to host a baby shower is lunchtime. Some women love to host a ‘happy hour’ shower with plenty of cocktails at sunset while others prefer an earlier time to celebrate and enjoy hosting a brunch. Picture all the activities of the day and schedule your time accordingly.

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Who Should Host A Baby Shower?

Parents-to-be can’t throw their own baby shower; instead, a friend or more distant relative, such as aunts or cousins should do that. If no one has come forward to plan your baby shower, talk to your best friend or a close female relative, and ask her to take the reins. This rule was meant to avoid the ideas that the family was simply on a mission to collect gifts.

It’s also recommended to put together a gift registry. A registry can help guests who aren’t sure what to give you. It can also help to avoid duplicate gifts from guests.

Who Should Be Invited To A Baby Shower?

Who Should Be Invited To A Baby Shower

The number of guests depends on the available space, your budget, and who the mom-to-be would like to have there. Usually, the natural guest lists are close family members and friends, but the mom to be might want to keep some people off the guest list. It’s always good to ask the mother about the guest list before sending out any invitations.

The planner should also ask the parents if they’d like a co-ed or all-female baby shower before putting together the guest list. Remember not to pressurize yourself with too many guests. Invite only the guest that you can manage.

What About Male Guests?

Although baby showers are for women, it’s becoming more and more common to include male friends, spouses, and relatives on the guest list. A word of caution: Ask the mum-to-be if she would like to see a male guest, and also consider the personality of the father. Some might relish sharing every aspect of the pregnancy, while others may feel uncomfortable with the idea of being a guest of honor.

How To Throw A Baby Shower


Baby shower’s party depends on what mom-to-be wants. Even though she can’t plan her own baby shower, we suggest you ask for her thoughts on the activities that are being planned.

Consider the following while planning a baby shower:

What About A Baby Shower For A Second Or Third Baby?

All new life is worth celebrating, baby showers for second- and third-time moms, have become acceptable especially if there’s a significant age difference between the children of the expectant mom or if she’s having a baby of a different gender this time around.


A baby shower is a beautiful way to celebrate your baby-to-be as well as ease the financial burden of all those “must-have” baby items. Once the party is scheduled, and the guest list is handled, all you need to do is show up.

As for the organizer, you don’t have to feel stressed out at the last minute if the party is perfectly organized. We hope you have a fun baby shower.


About the Author

Barbara Nevers

Barbara is a full-time mom of 3 children and a part-time blogger since 2018. She likes to write on various topics about motherhood. She drinks a lot of coffee, loves French pastries, reads a lot, also enjoys crafts and Montessori activities.

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